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In Print

Sherwin Nuland '55MD
Lost in America: A Journey with My Father
Alfred A. Knopf, $24

Much of the power of Sherwin Nuland’s award-winning books on the physiology of human life and death lies in the writer’s ability to evoke his past “in that overcrowded warren of tenements, pushcarts, and disease that has become miraculously transformed into a place of nostalgia by a generation that never knew its privations—the Lower East Side of New York City.” But of all the stories Nuland, a clinical professor of surgery at the Medical School, has shared about his mother, his formidable “bubbeh”—his grandmother—and other relatives, one family member was conspicuously absent. Nowhere did Meyer Nudelman, Nuland’s father—the writer adopted an Americanized name when he was a teenager—make an appearance.

And yet, Nudelman, for good and ill, has already been a major presence in the writer’s life. In a memoir that opens with a harrowing account of Nuland’s year-long hospitalization for depression when he was in his early-forties, he notes, “I am trying to find the truth of my father and in the process . to finally make peace with him, and perhaps with myself.”

There are many coming-to-terms books that are best left on the analyst’s couch; this is not one of them. Nuland brings the often-volcanic Nudelman vividly to life and makes it easy to see why this immigrant tailor (in Yiddish the family name means “needleman”) who worked in the city’s garment district had such a searing impact on his son’s life. A man “lost in America”—in Nuland’s assessment, his father never found his place in his adopted country, particularly after his wife died—Nudelman was also stricken with a “seemingly undiagnosable neurological disease” that left him increasingly disabled and dependent. “A proud man reduced to debility is hypersensitive to any perceived slight,” says Nuland. “My father demanded not merely deference but total respect from his two sons, and when he thought it not to be forthcoming, he would lash out in a ranting deluge of anger that had more in it of impotent rage than of authority.”

The writer often served as the father’s support when he walked. “My right arm was his staff. I could wander only so far, because there were times when I needed to be available for him,” Nuland notes. “Even now, I can feel his hand squeezing my arm. I am in his grip still.”

His father, the writer believed, “was my imperious overlord. I would only be free with his death, or so I thought.”

In this, he was wrong, but over the course of the writer’s journey to the heart of who his father actually was, Nuland has, years later, discovered a surprising, and liberating, truth. “In seeking to escape him, I have drawn closer,” he says, “and now at last I know that the closeness can be good.”

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Julie Otsuka '84
When the Emperor Was Divine
Alfred A. Knopf, $18

In a gem of a novel about the internment of Japanese-Americans during World War II, Julie Otsuka begins her story when a mother spots Evacuation Order No. 19."It was a sunny day in spring of 1942, and she was wearing new glasses and could see everything clearly for the first time in weeks,” Otsuka writes. “She wrote down a few words . then went home and began to pack.”

What follows is a haunting account that traces the impact the wrongful imprisonment of Japanese-American citizens had on one family. Shortly before the evacuation order had appeared, the woman’s husband had been arrested as a possible spy and sent to prison, becoming little more than an occasional letter and a distant memory. The mother and her daughter and son were sent to the Utah desert where the rules were as harsh as the landscape: “Do not touch the barbed wire fence. Or talk to the guards in the towers. Do not stare at the sun. And remember, never say the Emperor’s name out loud.”

There they survived for three years, only to be reunited and left with questions that “we never asked. All we wanted to do, now that we were back in the world, was forget.”

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John F. Stacks '64
Scotty: James B. Reston and the Rise and Fall of American Journalism
Little, Brown and Co., $29.95

The historic events and world figures that James Reston covered in three decades at the New York Times make up just one of the threads in a remarkable life. From the U.S. entry into World War II through Vietnam and Watergate, he served the country’s leading newspaper as reporter, columnist, and, less successfully, in a brief stint as an editor.

For most of this time, Reston was “wise, fair, able to speak in his own voice, and most of all,” Stacks shows, “so well respected by those in power that he could find out and tell his readers what was really going on in the world.”

This confidant of presidents (to whom Kennedy confessed his frustration and sense of failure after the 1961 summit with Khrushchev) had come up the hard way. Born near Glasgow in extreme poverty, “Scotty” Reston put himself through college in Illinois playing varsity golf and tennis and spent several years as a sports reporter.

As so often occurs in larger-than-life careers, the very traits that led Reston to such success also created blind spots. During the Vietnam peace talks, he allowed himself to be duped by Henry Kissinger, who wanted the North Vietnamese, among others, to believe the resumed bombing of the North was entirely Nixon’s idea. “He was no longer an outsider with superb connections on the inside,” Stacks notes. “He was a full-fledged insider, the wrong place for a respected journalist to be.”

The author, a longtime writer and editor for Time, maintains admirable balance between judgment and sympathy. Oddly though, in his Afterword about the need for “decent public dialogue” in political life, Stacks finds “rays of hope” in—of all places—the 2000 presidential campaign. One wishes Reston was still around to comment.

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Karl Kirchwey '79
At the Palace of Jove
Putnam Publishing Group, $26

Karl Kirchwey, who directed New York City’s Unterberg Poetry Center of the 92nd Street Y for 13 years, has recently published his fourth book of poetry. At the Palace of Jove draws its title from the book’s first poem, in which Virtue believes herself to be ill-treated and waits outside the palace of Jove for access to the god. However, her patience does not pay off, and, weather-beaten, she is abruptly turned away from the palace.

This poem sets the tone for the book, which draws on classical sources to compare the past to the present. Gods and mortals are shown aspiring to different forms of greatness and knowledge, and usually settling for less. We see a wealthy Roman who displeases the emperor and must lose his estate; the Pope who learns that Rome has won a sporting final only by hearing the noise of cars and voices outside his Vatican apartments; and two men who start a vicious fight in a bus and exemplify “the infant wish fulfilled / to remake, with bare hands, the rude flawed world.”

The book is divided into four sections: “Satires,” “Anatomies,” “Elegies,” and “Imitations.” In the book’s first section, the poet explores the juxtaposition of grand past and current base attempts at art in “Palazzo Altemps.” In the Piazza Navona, faced with Bernini’s fountain, the speaker asks, “how did they ever do it: I mean render such beauty?” The present seems to offer only lesser art, as evidenced by the man who sketches a young girl (a tourist) in charcoal. “Where her beauty leads, he never follows. / He does not dare,” and the artist succeeds only in “reducing her to a commonplace.”

The elegies create a mood that may be best described as “spiritual nil.” For example, in “Jump,” the speaker remembers a time following his mother’s death: “On the breast of the water, the children made such bright scars. / Each was healed in a moment and disappeared.” The speaker reflects that he should have joined them, but “now it is too late.” While Kirchwey seems to find hope in looking to the past for inspiration, he suggests that, in this day and age, “the prayer is in the praise.”

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Brief Reviews

Charles '61 and Angeliki Vellou Keil; Dick Blau '67, photographer; and Steven Feld, soundscapes
Bright Balkan Morning: Romani Lives and the Power of Music in Greek Macedonia
Wesleyan University Press, $34.95

This handsome book evokes, through words, photos, and a CD, the Roma people of the Balkans.

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Glenn Fleishman '90 and Adam Engst
The Wireless Networking Starter Kit
Peach Pit Press, $29.99

So you’re tired of being “wired.” Whether you use Windows- or Mac-based computers, two technology pros offer entertaining and authoritative advice about how to cut the cord and create wireless networks.

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Evan Gottesman '88
Cambodia After the Khmer Rouge: Inside the Politics of Nation Building
Yale University Press, $35

The book focuses on the period between 1979, when Vietnam invaded Cambodia and overthrew the Khmer Rouge, and 1991, when an international peace agreement set the stage for UN-sponsored elections.

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Joe '64, '67LLB, and Hadassah Lieberman
An Amazing Adventure: Joe and Hadassah’s Personal Notes on the 2000 Campaign
Simon and Schuster, $25

“When Shabbat comes, you walk,” note the Liebermans in this memoir about the 2000 election in which the Democratic senator made history as the first Jewish candidate for vice president.

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Marilyn Paul '87PhD
It’s Hard to Make a Difference When You Can’t Find Your Keys: The Seven Steps Path to Becoming Truly Organized
Penguin Putnam, $24.95

A self-confessed chronically disorganized person, management consultant Paul teaches how to truly change the chaos within and without.

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Rhona S. Weinstein '73PhD
Reaching Higher: The Power of Expectations in Schooling
Harvard University Press, $39.95

Psychologist Weinstein, who has conducted extensive research on the effects of self-fulfilling prophecies in education, offers a game plan for raising both expectations and results.

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More Books by Yale Authors

Stephanie Allen 1986
A Place Between Stations: Short Stories
University of Missouri Press, $15.95

Kelly Askew 1988
Performing the Nation: Swahili Music and Cultural Politics in Tanzania
University of Chicago Press, $72

Helen Campbell 1979MMus
The Blue Yonder Inn
Michigan State University Press, $26.95

Jim Duffus 1949 and Dancy Duffus
A Guide for Car-Hiking the Appalachian Trail
iUniverse, $14.95

Stephen Robert Frankel 1970
Frank Lloyd Wright’s Guggenheim Museum: An Architectural Appreciation
Guggenheim Museum, $14.95

Raymond W. Gastil 1980
Beyond the Edge: New York’s New Waterfront
Princeton Architectural Press, $30

William D. Geoghegan 1943 and Kevin L. Stoehr
Jung’s Psychology as a Spiritual Practice and Way of Life: A Dialogue
University Press of America, $28

Bruce M. Knauft 1976, Editor
Critically Modern: Alternatives, Alterities, Anthropologies
Indiana University Press, $54.95

Aimee Liu 1975
Flash House: A Novel
Warner Books, $24.95

Brook Manville 1972 and Josiah Ober
A Company of Citizens: What the World’s First Democracy Teaches Leaders about Creating Great Organizations
Harvard Business School Press, $27.50

Pamela C.M. Marr 1991 and Frank-Jurgen Richter, Editors
Recreating Asia: Visions for a New Century
World Economic Forum, $29.95

John McGonagle 1966
Bottom Line Competitive Intelligence
Greenwood Press, $59.95

Joel Mokyr 1974PhD
The Gifts of Athena: Historical Origins of the Knowledge Economy
Princeton University Press, $35

Horace A. Porter 1981PhD
The Making of a Black Scholar: From Georgia to the Ivy League
University of Iowa Press, $24.95

James Prosek 1997
Fly-Fishing the 41st: Around the World on the 41st Parallel
HarperCollins, $27.95

William Rawn 1965
Architecture for the Public Realm: Essays
Edizioni Press, $40

Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick 1975PhD
Touching Feeling: Affect, Pedagogy, Performativity
Duke University Press, $18.95

David Sklar 1997BS and Adam Trachtenberg
PHP Cookbook
O'Reilly, $39.95

Dominic R. Thomas 1996PhD
Nation-Building, Propaganda, and Literature in Francophone Africa
Indiana University Press, $49.95

Terra Ziporyn 1980
The Bliss of Solitude: A Novel
Xlibris, $21.99

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